Orgasm and frigidity
Because your sex life to be a normal, must, in addition to the physical
powers, was more willing and some knowledge that will help you better
understand your partner and the entire mechanism of sex.
This chapter will help to understand that the culmination of female pleasure,
depends on several factors.
In general, men can have orgasms every time they make love. Women however,
are not so lucky. Some women were part of one or more peaks each time
you make love. Others are happy just to get close. And few women are very
frustrated because of this inability to have orgasm during intercourse.
Orgasm is a subjective perception of maximum intensity of sexual stimulation,
manifested by a sensation of pleasure! Subjective orgasm begins with a
feeling of suspension or stop, which lasts a moment, and is immediately
followed by intense lust consciousness. Orgasm is an overwhelming delight,
covering the entire body, giving the state an incomparable pleasure, in
which time seems stopped in its flow. This state seems to have little
relation to reproduction, as perpetuating individual and occurs in the
absence of orgasm.
Orgasm makes partners who love each other to spread, or rather to be filled
with energy, which is intertwined and that goes beyond them.
During orgasm, there is a state similar to a "lucid trance."
Laughing or crying that includes some women orgasm is not a manifestation
of hysterical, but a form of perception culminations acuplarii. Both partner
the orgasm when mimics have a sober, serious, focused. The seriousness
and concentration since preorgasmic and the highest point of orgasm in
no room nor to trivialities or sweet nothings, even if lovers used. Twitching
orgasm is like staring at the time of death.
orgasmic experience varies from person to person, the same person, the
intensity of orgasm is different in relation to certain circumstances,
but most of all the stages of life.
Orgasm is common to men and women, and the often expressed as intense
physical pleasure, manifested by both sexes, with a discharge tension
arising from sexual arousal. Moment "ecstatic" following his
nervous expansion manifested by somatic, a total relaxation and the physical
plan, a twilight state and abandonment.
orgasm lasts between 3 and 10 seconds.
female orgasm can be triggered spotan at the time of ejaculation (orgasm)
man, but most times, two phenomena do not coincide.
Most times she perceive near orgasm: sexual tension growing and at one
point, an orgasm is inevitable. Usually, in this "siuatie no return"
will force a woman to obtain orgasm suggesting, verbal or nonverbal man,
it is necessary to accelerate and amplify the movement copulatorii. Sometimes
there is no need to accelerate the pace, but the force or movement, she
asks partner to stop, it just moves them running Covina.
The male orgasm once triggered can not be interrupted by external factors
or by will.
Unlike man , which reach its peak of excitement is followed inevitably
by orgasm (and ejaculation), the woman can "rate" orgasmul.Un
unexpected noise or "annoying", change the pace or the position
of partner, a man suddenly ejaculation can lead to failure to obtain orgasm
by women. Psychic and somatic, she felt very unpleasant as this state
of perplexity - "half satisfied, half frustrated." Objective
and subjective this failure, is seen in muscle tension, nervousness, depression,
sometimes very intense pulsing headache.
Orgasm is achieved by tactile stimulation of the genitals, but can be
obtained by tactli stimuli that leave the nipples or psychic stimuli ,
imagination (fantasmatice stimulation).
Women have an orgasm, either by stimulation of the clitoris only, either
by penetration, deep penis into the vagina, followed by moves copulatorii,
in the first case we obtain a very intense orgasm, acute, "electric"
and in the second situation occurs orgasm more "internal" deep,
warm, full, subtle, softer diffuse.
Most women can achieve orgasm the clitoris, and vaginal. However, some
fail than voluptuous sensations, triggered the clitoral orgasm itself
is accomplished only through vaginal arousal.
Masters and Johnson made ??the observation that, during the excitement,
the woman has a sexual rosire the face, breasts and later, other areas
of the body. Nipples become hard and immediately start vaginal lubrication.
The clitoris swells and stretches.
During this phase, the first thirty seconds when the man starts moving
intravaginal, two thirds of the vagina extends from the inside reflex.
It is a long, accompanied by a widening. In fact, it is a supraextindere
so high an erect penis, may be lost in the space, while the coital movements
continue after a minute the "bloated" ceases.
vagina contracting involuntarily around the penis. These small adjustments
mean that a woman can comfortably accommodate smaller or larger penises.
It is clear - at least for muscles to access the vagina - that means a
stronger muscle better molding which, in turn, provide more intense sensations
of both partners.
During sexual stimulation, women's physical reactions can be classified
according following phases:
Phase arousal: rosire sexual in nature, hard nipples, vaginal lubrication,
increased and erect clitoris, vagina expanded.
plateau: the area around the nipple swells, increasing heart rate, withdrawal
of the clitoris, vaginal lips and increase internal turn red, increasing
the area outside the vagina, increasing overall muscle tension.
orgasmic phase: the pelvis and uterus contract repeatedly maximum muscle
Phase Recovery: Erect nipples and redness disappear, the clitoris returns
to its normal position, the vagina is the normal size.
During the plateau phase, aureolele breast swell, creating the impression
that there was no nipple erection. Heart rate increases and the clitoris
withdraws, becomes very difficult to locate. Labia minora (inner lips)
become intensely red and will grow to their normal size twice.
Although the inside of the vagina has expanded, increased blood flow causes
swelling of the outer third of the vagina, which form what is called orgasmic
platform. Entry is 30 to 50 percent narrower. Most voluntary muscles are
in this part of the vagina.
So narrowing correlated with a higher strength of these muscles can lead
to more intense coercion, so a more intense stimulation to the penis.
increased muscle tension, accumulated in the first two phases reaches
a peak during orgasm phase. Uterus and vaginal muscles contract explosive
three to fifteen times. A great orgasm intensity can trigger a contraction
lasting two to four seconds and repeat the contractions that follow at
intervals of about one second.
Finally, during recovery, nipple erection and flushing of nature sexual
disappear. Clitoris returns to its normal position in five to ten seconds
after cessation of contractions during orgasm platform.
Masters and Johnson noted, not surprisingly, these phases last longer
in women than in men. This is especially true during the fertile matings
during which there was not enough stimulation, manual or oral, or an inexperienced
man who knows how to stimulate your partner.
Interestingly, during masturbation, the woman is in control and knows
exactly what to touch and how long it can go, as the man at maximum intensity
in two to three minutes.
For a woman to reach orgasm, she needs stimulation of the clitoris consistency.
This causes an increase in genital blood flow and an increase in muscle
tension, ultimately leading to orgasm. But if the stimuli are not appropriate,
she can jump over expansion orgasm and fall slowly on a plateau phase
of recovery, excessively prolonged.
Masters and Johnson have described three ways subjective feeling of orgasm
a Model A that includes women with multiple orgasms. The plateau between
orgasms no refractory period. These women can trigger successive orgasms
6-7. Usually the second or third orgasm is felt subjectively experience
more pleasant and satisfying. The man, in case of repeated sexual intercourse
in the same meeting, the first orgasm is more intense. This is probably
related to the amount ejaculantului.
2 Model B is characteristic of young women, less experienced in terms
of sexual: they see the rapid growth to steady excitation. Plateau has
small fluctuations to orgasm without an orgasm is achieved. After the
plateau, following a slow decline, to a state in which sexual arousal
3 Model C is characterized by a rapid increase in excitability, not steady,
but the unique intense orgasm.